I managed to get a copy of Steve Harvey's book "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man". This book is about 90% accurate, it will teach a lady how to set boundaries and rules for men in their relationships, its a great read for guys too, for those who are serious only!
Oh and here's the link to the book, download it, read it and let me know what you think...
http://rapidshare.com/files/242332635/Steve_Harvey_Act_like_a_lady.pdf
I personally think that this is a great read and remember its Steve's point of view in this book and at the end of the day remember its still a story.